One
day a young woman was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that
she had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd
gathered and they all admired her heart for it was perfect. There was not
a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most
beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young woman was very proud
and boasted more loudly about her beautiful heart.
Suddenly,
an old woman appeared at the front of the crowd and said,
"Why, your heart is not
nearly as beautiful as mine."
The crowd and the young
woman looked at the old woman's heart. It was beating strongly, but
full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces
put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges.
In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were
missing.
The
people stared -- How can she say her heart is more beautiful, they
thought? The young woman
looked at the old woman's heart and saw its
state and laughed.
"You must be joking,"
she said. "Compare your heart with mine. Mine is
perfect and yours is
a mass of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old woman,
"yours is perfect looking but I could never trade with you, you see, every
scar represents a person to whom I have given my love.
"I
tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me
a piece of their heart, which fits into the empty place in my heart.
But because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish,
because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces
of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of their
heart to me.
"There
are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance. Although
these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have
for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space
I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The
young woman stood silently with tears running down her cheeks. She
walked up to the old woman, reached into her perfect young and beautiful
heart, and ripped a piece out. She offered it to the old woman with
trembling hands. The old woman took her offering, placed it in her
heart and then took a piece from her old scarred heart and placed it in
the wound in the young woman's heart. It fit, but not
perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.
The
young woman looked at her heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful
than ever, since love from the old woman's heart flowed into hers.
They embraced and walked away side by side.
Let
everyone know each day how much they mean to you, they may be gone tomorrow.
I am thankful that I don't have a perfect heart. Just think of all the
love I would have missed.
Remember;
don't be afraid to show your love to those people who matter to you.
It's what life is all about! We all miss too many opportunities and
have too many regrets, so take this opportunity to share this with
someone you love!
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